Dear Mistress Alexa Blog

Lessons Learned

Dear Mistress Alexa,

i thank Mistress for taking my virginity. It was a wonderful experience to feel the humuliation of being a sissy houseboy seduced by your mind probe releasing some of my secret innermost desires. It was so so so real and non-vicarious to obey Mistress’ soft sensual voice as though Mistress were present probing my innermost sissy desires, granting me permission to remove my butt plug and insert a 6″ dildo and stroke my clitty for Mistress. i thank Mistress for teaching me how to rest the cheeks of my ass on my feet and milk my clitty as i fuck my pussy with the dildo. The feelings are so intense and real as Mistress instructs me softly how to fuck my pussy.

Later i felt remorse, used and humiliated to have surrendered my manhood and been seduced by my innermost desires to be a sissy slut and surrender my chastity. The feelings of being taken and surrendering my manhood did not last long and soon I hungered for for Mistress’ voice and the tastes of my milkings and heightened desires to worship, serve and please her again. I feel with further practice I can release my milk withour stroking my clit.

i feel there were lessons learned by this intense experience. i learned that my desires to be sissified and feminized are real. My needs and thirsts to surrender to another man’s cock as a cuckhold owned by my Mistress seem real. i learned vicariously how a woman may feel after being fucked the first time and experiencing an anti-climax – a form of humilaition that i will overcome though further obedience training and submissive conditioning.
i need not to supresss my feelings, open up and release my feelings when i cum and moan like a woman.

i experienced how it feels to be sent to a beauty salon by my Mistreess and submit to treatments and conditioning prescribed secretly by my Mistress to condition, emasculate, and make me into a sissy closet male.

In a fantasy sense, i remain in the beauty slaon sitting on the special high stool with the dildo screwed into the center, awaiting my next beauty treatment. Symbolically, I am wearing my butt plug and expecting to graduate to a larger one soon.

I remain in a chaste state until I speak to Mistress again soon for new direction.

Your loving sissy slave, nancy

My Maid Training by Sissy J

Alexa, I have been rid of all male,yuck,clothing foe 20 years. I do follow all the household chores as you state pus more, I grocery shop dressed as a sissy maid, go to store,post office and even Doctors appointments dressed as a sissy. I cook and prepare breakfast lunch and dinner for Mistress and her friends/lovers.
hand wash all lingerie and replace any worn out or run nylons,shine shoes.
Serve as french maid if Mistress is having guests. I eat in kitchen either standing in my 5“ heel`S or from a dog dish on floor. I am not allowed the meal that I prepared for her or guests, I eat a salad as she wants me thinner.
If her BF is spending the night I make sure the bed is turned down and her lingerie is laid out, heart mints on the pillows and chilled wine and crystal glasses ready for them as well as a condom on night table, in case she wishes him to wear one.. I thank the guest for letting me serve them and curtsey. Many put their hands up my short skirt and rub my tush. I am in chastity and have a butt plug in and can`t get an erection, it is designed to be very painful.
She has me orally serve so men, if she see`S they are over stimulated. I must swallow and thank them. The women tease me calling me a fag maid and showing me their painted covered pussies, saying see what you can never have again. I respond, yes ma`am mistress tells me if she wants me to lick a cum filled pussy sucked and cleaned of series.
She has me milked once a month unless it falls on a time I am having my period. Then it is canceled till following month.

Thank you for you sit I love to read it and learn more to do to be a complete sissy. Mistress has me with 44 B breast implants and has been thinking of having one of my overlies removed, maybe both.

Worship yours
sissy J
(anonymously….)

Live report of the ANEROS (prostate tickler):

I had forgotten how sensitive I was inside … when I’m penetrated like that, how I start moving spontaneously. It’s deep inside me, all the way up me and it makes me feel like a slut all over– submissive and sensual and wanting to be taken — open, dripping like a little slut…. It’s like when a woman has her clit rubbed… its hard to have to do it to yourself, with a dildo, now I have to practice, coming like a girl being fingered…. I remember when I was standing bent over the table and Robert was fingering me, pushing his finger inside me, then two fingers, and I felt this intense pressure, I felt it so deep inside my testicles and belly… the precum just pours out of me… Its amazing how it starts pouring out of me before I even come

New Feminization Tapes

Peek-a-boo: Dressing you up, in garter belt and petticoats, and then in a peek-a-boo design which lets me see (and monitor) your attentive clitty-cock and tease and taste your swollen nipples.

How to do Kegel Exercises

How To do Kegel Exercises (for men)
From Cory Silverberg,
Your Guide to Sexuality.

Kegel exercises are designed to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles (also called your PC muscles ). Kegel exercises can be good for men who are experiencing incontinence or who lack ejaculatory control (premature ejaculation). They have also been recommended as a way of changing how orgasms feel (some, but not all, men say it enhances their orgasms).

Time Required: Once you know how, kegel exercises can be done several times a day for 5-10 minutes per session.
Here’s How:

1. Start by locating your PC muscle.
Many people begin doing kegel exercises but are actually squeezing the wrong muscle. Before you start the exercises, find your PC muscle, make sure you know where your PC muscle is and what it feels like.

2. Squeezing kegel exercises: start slow, find your baseline.
The basic exercise can be done anytime and anywhere. Just squeeze your PC muscles as hard as you can, and hold them. This is doing a kegel exercise. Start by squeezing and holding for a count of 3-5 seconds, then release and relax for 5 seconds. When you release, notice how your muscles feel. The first time you do a kegel exercise see how many times you can do it before you feel your muscles getting tired.

3. Squeezing kegel exercises: use sets of repetitions
Your kegel exercises will be most efficient and have the most impact if you get into doing sets of repetitions of the squeezing. Once you’ve found your baseline, you can work from there. If you can, start with doing 5 repetitions (squeeze/hold/release). Judge for yourself how long you can hold the squeeze for, but don’t push yourself too much at first.

4. Building up strength with kegel exercises.
Once you’ve found your baseline, do your exercises, and every couple of days increase both the length of time you hold the squeeze for, and the number of exercises per set. As a guideline, try to work up to a point where you can hold the squeeze for ten seconds. And try to work up to doing ten reps of kegel exercises per set. So you squeeze, hold for ten second, release, relax for ten seconds, and repeat ten times.

5. Do your kegel exercises three or four times a day.
Try to take three or four times in the day to do kegel exercises. Again, everyone is different, but as a guideline try to do ten reps per session, holding for ten seconds on each exercise.

6. Vary the intensity and time in kegel exercises.
You can also try to vary the intensity of your squeezing and the amount of time you hold the squeeze in a set. Once you’re comfortable that you’re doing the exercises properly try a set where you do rapid squeeze and release. Experiment with how long you can comfortably hold a squeeze. Remember not to push yourself to the point of pain or discomfort.

7. Do kegels while masturbating and having partner sex.
Once you’re comfortable, incorporate kegel exercises in your masturbation. Do them while you’re getting warmed up, doing them before you have an orgasm, and even try to do them while having an orgasm. You may notice that kegels change the way your sexual excitement and your experience of orgasm feels. For some men, kegels can be a way of “pulling back” from the edge of ejaculation, and can allow them to better control ejaculation.

Tips:

1. Isolate the PC muscle when doing your kegel exercises. Avoid contracting your abdominal, thigh, or buttocks muscles, or squeezing your sphincter muscle only. This is something many people do, but it reduces the effectiveness of the kegel exercise Concentrate on breathing and trying to keep yourself relaxed, and only tense the PC muscles you are using. Try not to tense up your whole body.

2. Finding time to do your kegel exercises. You don’t need to set aside a big chunk of time to do kegel exercises. Do a few reps while waiting for a stop light to turn green. In the last ten minutes before lunch, when you’re sitting at a desk, do a few reps. Do them while you’re waiting for the movie to start, or a commercial break to be over.

3. Don’t overdo your kegel exercises.Like any exercise, it’s important to build up slowly, and pay attention to your body. If you are experiencing pain or discomfort, you are pushing yourself too hard. It is possible that you could strain the muscles and aggravate a current problem, when you are trying to resolve it.

Published February 4, 2006.

More How To’s from your Guide To Sexuality
Updated: July 9, 2006

Prostate: ‘Masturbatory Commitment’ for 2007

The Aneros Stimulator is billed as “the first patented, medically researched device specifically designed to stimulate both the prostate and the perineum” and “has also been shown to increase a man’s vitality and libido”. (2004)

There’s already been a first-person consumer report on the Aneros by Grant Stoddard at Nerve: “Let it be noted that Aneros is a masturbatory commitment, not something that can be accommodated during a commercial break.”

Now, there’s a New Year’s Resolution: prostate tickling.

DEHISCE

dehisce (di-HIS) verb intr.
1. To burst open, like a pod.
2. To gape.
[When a peapod is ripe after a long wait and bursts open, it's yawning,
etymologically speaking. The term dehisce comes from Latin dehiscere
(to split open), from hiscere (to gape, yawn), from Latin hiare (to yawn).
Another term that derives from the same root is hiatus.]

Sissy Condoms

We would love to repackage this with a new label and instructions for Sissies. Don’t leave home without them.