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Submissives need and benefit from training….

Submissives need and benefit from training. Mistress Alexa trains a subject,  inside and out.  It is never enough to provide vague orders; instructions must be complete, detailed, copiously noted and remembered by the submissive.  Mistress Alexa turns each command into an opportunity to learn. Submissives are enthusiastic when the Mistress is lavish with her praise. Submissives are enthusiastic when the Mistress cares about the quality of their tribute. Submissives who improve are rewarded by the Mistress, and the best reward of all is Alexa’s voice. Call her at 888-411-1230, and ask her to make a customized audio recording for your special needs.

Cuckold Training

Dear Mistress:

I am seeking to have you hypnotize and control me so that I can fully embrace my desire to submit to a dominant woman.

I was a uniquely vulnerable young man when I was discharged from the army many years ago and found myself in a relationship with a dominant woman who quickly assessed my vulnerability to her desires and needs. I know now that I fit the psychological profile that allowed me to accept and indeed grow to need o accept and fullfil her sexual desireswhich became my own. I was without family and had been neglectede as a child befre landing homeless on the streets.

She took me under her wing and before long she was straddling me and playing with my niples, telling me that she wished that Ihad “titties” for her. I wished that I had them for her too, and soon she was mounting me and thrusting against my willing and receptive hips. As she enteredme with first her finger andthen a dildo, penetration becamea condiction for fulfillment of the sexual act. When she then shaved myegs and then slipped offher paties for me to wear as a prelude to entering me while she pinned my wrists against the carpeted floor. I came as a girl and reveled in her being my man as I submitted to her wonderful thrusts as her demanding pelvis ground into my hips and I found myself transported to an ecstatsy of which I had only hitherto dreamed. When she was doneand was stll panting with lust she demanded, and I was ony too happy to acquiesce, thatI shave my legs onaweekly basis and wear women’s panties from then on.

Soon I discovered that she had routinely been sleeping with other men. Instead of angering me, my anger soon gave way to asexual excitement that I had never suspected existed. I found myselfencourageing her to pick up a man so that I could surreptitiously their lovemaking. She willingly did so, but first bound me to an arm chair so I “couldn’t spoil her fun”, and I found myself watching a man so much better endowed than me that it took my breath away entering my wife. I came repeatedly and spontaneously, while he gave her a through fucking. After hewas done and departed, my wife came over, drew her finger through her sopping vagina and held it outwqard from her groin asa surrogate penis which I willing sucked into my mouth. She unbound me and climbed atop my mouth, holding my head still by my hair as she rocked to and fro as she lowered her foam flecked genitals gently to my waiting mouth.

Now, years later, I realzethat I need this and that I was fully and successfully indoctrinacted by her as a willing cuckold. I would willingly suck cock for a woman and for her husband or would loveto be in a cuckold relationship with another woman.

herdelight: hollow plastic penis

One of my cuckolds recently told me that he and his wife have started using the herdelight plastic penis, in between times he is caged inside his CB-3000. What a neat invention! for husbands without enough substance…

Submissive husband, dominant wife: new chores for the cuckold

Hello Alexa,

I’m sorry for the false alarm the other day, so much has changed lately, between S- and I that is. For the better I think, only time will tell though. It started when she found many of the things that I had saved onto our computer, one of which was a contract between a submissive husband and a dominant wife. In her attempts to get me to quit smoking, we have had very little luck in the past, until she talked me into signing this contract. I thought that it was all going to be a little fun game for a while but she has really gotten into the whole thing. After signing it, S took some things into her own hands. First, she locked me into the cb-3000. She said that it would speed up my compliance with her expectations. I can only be released from my prison if I have gone 2 weeks without a cigarette. I have only been able to go for 4 days at a time so far and thus have not been released for over a month! I am going crazy. Being that S- works for our bank, she was able to transfer all of our accounts into her name so that now I have to ask her for money and justify all of my expenditures. I am completely out of control yet I feel so useful and relieved at the same time. She is loving it. I keep the house spotless and do all of the chores around the house. Thank you for your guidance in helping me to retrain me for my wife as her chaste cucky-boy.

An errant boy returns to Mistress Alexa.

Good morning Mistress Alexa,

An errant boy returns to Mistress Alexa.

by jason

It was just a little while removed from our conversation that I was looking at the cb3000, it was not locked upon Her cock and balls, though it felt as if a rythmic silken spanking of the ball sac was occuring, Her quiet confidence that needed no device to take possession of Her toys. I was on my bed with nude pantyhose, that were now cum stained, feeling very much under Her divine spell. I thank You so much for the sensual control Mistress Alexa. The feeling as I came was very powerful, continuing to grind my hips lightly into the sheets as I oozed, feeling the dildo buried inside me though not as deep as it will be due to the pantyhose, Your joy sounded incredible as You talked about deflowering me very matter of fact style, not just an idea. I was able to wear the stained pantyhose all day, I even slept in them. At one point I felt You close to me, pulling down my pantyhose rubbing my rosebud, telling me of the stretching that will be so much fun….dreams or reality, Mistress Alexa I love Your control.

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Being a sissy for my sis-in-law

Hi alexa and other sissies…

I am a married closet CD and our sister in law ( Neha) lives with us as she is doing her college. I have had the hots for her for a long time and have often whacked off by smelling her panties and licking her high heels when i am alone..which is quite often, thanks to my wife working for an international firm which involves travelling a lot

the inevitable happened; one day i was wearing her bra ( which was too tight for me) and her panties.Neha had gone for movies with her friends..damn the movies..was sold out and she came back early ( thank God she was alone !!)

i had one f her sandals in my right hand and her used panty in my left and was pumping the other sandals with my pathetic cock.. moaning ..:”neha..mmm” that was when i realised that she was standing right behind me..

rest later….

Stamen: perfumed and inescapable male, but not, swishy, slutty, girly…

The first of a series of inspired drawings for Alexa:

Perfumed and inescapable, male, but not, swishy, slutty, and girly.

About me, I love the humiliation of a man feminized, of a man willingly giving up his masculinity to the dread embarrassment of being sissified; the more publicly, the better. Sissies are more stigmatized than gays, their ridicule exquisite. I particularly love the image of a man’s genitalia being turned into something sugar, and spice and everything lacy, so pink and lacy. — your puppet

Can you answer this?

I stumbled across the website after I decided to do some research after I saw a magazine styled after ‘Sissy Girls’ I saw at a local sex shop. Let me be blunt. I am a transsexual, but after reading several of the stories and looking at some of the material on your site, I actually felt a bit…well, scared to tell the truth. For me transsexuality is about survival. Without hormones testosterone infects me like the most insidious poison, but to these examples, forced feminization seems like a hybrid of transsexuality and kink. In my situation, I know not to judge, but I have some difficulty understanding. The women in these stories seem to abandon their masculinity and improve themselves by becoming women and engage in sexual domination.

I guess the biggest question I have is to what extent is this all a fantasy and to what extent is it an actual lifestyle change? Forgive my naivite, but the contracts and worksheets you have posted seem pretty clear about the intent on an actual transformation of sorts. For lack of better terms, is this for real? Do some men actually abandon their minds and become servants of wealthy women? Again, I apologize for the naivite, but it seems a bit unclear to me.

In any event, the one thing that disturbs me a little is the willingness to abandon rational thought and self-respect. I understand the sexual and mental pleasure that can be derived from being dominated, but the extent of it all seems a little…cruel. Make no mistake though! I am not condemning any lifestyle or choice. I’m more just curious.

I understand you are probably a very busy woman and probably won’t have time to reply (since I imagine your inbox is quite large), but if you could offer me a small explanation or clarification, I would be much obliged.

Thank You.

Friendly and Respectfully,

L.

Did you call your mistress today?

Peeing for Girls, Training for Sissies

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The Petulant Virgin trades in his wig…

Jan 12th 2008 | ISTANBUL
From The Economist print edition

Huysuz Virjin (the Petulant Virgin) is adored by millions of Turks for his razor-sharp wit and his merciless tongue — or maybe for his sexy blonde hair and stockings. But RTUK, Turkey’s media censor, has forced the lovely crossdresser to take off his dress and revert to the unglamorous (and unvirginal) Mr Dursunoglu. Turkey seems to be enjoying another back door Islamic seduction … piety intact.

Huysuz Virjin, The Economist 1/12/2008

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A Letter from the Pledge Mistress

Hi, My name is Jen and I am the Pledge Mistress for a clandestine Feminist organization which educates men on how to properly serve women. My fellow Goddeses and I love your site! We were wondering if you might be able to do something. We have many pledges every year that pay us for the training we provide. We do so enjoy toying with them. We were wondering if it is possible to hypnotize a guy, that if he sees a woman putting red or pink lipstick on, he loses complete control and falls to his knees at her feet. Or how about if a woman was dangling a high heel, that he might get the feeling of being kicked in the groin or having his balls grabbed ever so roughly! How could this be done? Do you have any other ideas to get a guy to humiliate himself in public? If you need a test subject we’ve got plenty who are willing!

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Thanks..
♀ Jen Diamante
Pledge Mistress
The Division of The Goddess

Dear Pledge Mistress:

With so many mistresses demanding that their subs be undergo training in servitude and service, I will be publishing a hypnosis tape on this blog for just this purpose. With instructions.

–A

Petticoated Sissy Virgin

I went to a female membership meeting of the Aphrodite society to attend the ceremonious petticoating of a sissy. I was similarly initiated years ago, with my petticoats and skirts raised and my panties down around my knees. I shall never forget how humiliating it was to be bussed to a Sissy academy to learn sissy protocol. (I am a sissy not a drag queen; I must always wear petticoats under my skirts and dresses. I must curtsy to all females regardless of age.) But even Sissy School was a prelude to my piercing, my chastity training, my Prince Albert, and then my Princess Wand. …. More soon….

It’s Sissy Here…

Well I was invited to get fitted for my little girls dress. I had to go to the Ladies Bridge Club, where I am required to serve tea and coffee and cakes every weekend. They told me that my little girls dress was ready. One of the ladies had my dress for me…. First I had to take my skirts and petticoats off. I was just in my tights and my camisoles. They dressed me in 12 layers of camisoles….

Then came my little girls dress with puffy sleeves. The front is flat, because its a little girls dress. There’s no bustline. It has a little white apron that goes in the front and ties in the back. And because sthe hemline is so short, above my knees, my balls show. It’s quite embarrassing.

Once they put it on me I was forced to go shopping with my wife and some of the ladies…. There was nothing I could do to cover up my balls, or my chastity belt. It was very embarrassing. Every time I bent over I exposed myself.

Some of the ladies who already knew me were very surprised at my little girls dress. They couldn’t stop laughing. It was humiliating.

Now I have to wear this dress whenever the ladies want me to. They want to parade me around, and show off their little sissy girl. They take me shopping and force me to bend over all the time…

Some of the ladies call me the MASTURBATOR because they heard from some of my friends in the Ladies Petticoat Society, the Aphrodite Society, that I couldn’t stop masturbating. That I do it ten times a day. They wanted me to curtain my masturbation activities spo they locked me up in a chastity belt. Its silver plated, its like a girdle that fits around the waist. And the penis is in a cage in the front, and the cage is about 12 inches long. It’s custom measured and lined with rubber inside. Its perforated so the skin can breathe.

Letters to Alexa: Special Session

Last saturday i experienced a very unique moment in my life.

Because on friday i purchased some new things: new pair of red pumps ( more than 4 inch heel )with 2 straps, black stockings, a beautifull pseudo-victorian, black corset with garters and of course the 2 most important things for a sissy: dildo of more than 7 inches and new chastitydevice: the curcve.

Since friday i was so worked up that i was aroused for over more than 18 hours because i weared all those things.
The funny thing was that i couldn’t have any erection at all with the curve. With the CB 2000 i could have a minor erection in that device. But the curve presses on some places that is avoiding to have an erection.

When i called You for a session i played already for many hours with my new vibrating dildo. In the beginning it hurt a little bit but with some lube it became more pleasurable or confortable (= better expression )

During our session i fucked myself with the dilo and slapped my balls and after a while i became to feel more aroused and had the feeling that i could come without touching my clitty.

It was a very special feeling when i squirt it out and it dripped of my chastitydevice. The feeling when you come is like a highspeed train who drives very fast trew your penis or like a vulcan who erupts. But the best way to compare is like to vomit because when it comes, it comes fast and hard. Afterwards your stomach hurts. Well it’s the same feeling and the funny thing is that my balls hurt for at least 4 to 6 hours even the next day it hurted a little bit.

When you are milked with a dildo and you come it’s not so pleasurable when you are masturbating or having intercours with someone. But it is realy something special to achieve that and i will not forget that feeling.

I thank You, Mistress Alexa for this feeling.

Your slave

pre-morse

premorse (pri-MORS) adjective

Having the end abruptly truncated, as if bitten or broken off.

[From Latin praemorsus, from praemordere (to bite in front), from prae-
(before), mordere (to bite). Ultimately from the Indo-European root mer-
(to rub away or to harm) that is also the source of morse, mordant,
amaranth, morbid, mortal, mortgage, and nightmare.]

-Anu Garg (words at wordsmith.org)

“As I looked over the water, I saw the isles rapidly wasting away, the
sea nibbling voraciously at the continent, the springing arch of a hill
suddenly interrupted, as at Point Alderton — what botanists might call
premorse, — showing, by its curve against the sky, how much space it
must have occupied, where now was water only.”
Henry David Thoreau; Cape Cod; 1865.

Serving you is my dream…can’t wait!

Alexa, I look forward to serving you in the creative way discussed and enjoying the result of my efforts. I’m ready to do it when you are and everything is in place. Thanks because I know it will be totally fantastic for ALL!

Ready, willing, hot, and eager to serve you Alexa!

Franinceinpanties

How to do Kegel Exercises

How To do Kegel Exercises (for men)
From Cory Silverberg,
Your Guide to Sexuality.

Kegel exercises are designed to strengthen your pelvic floor muscles (also called your PC muscles ). Kegel exercises can be good for men who are experiencing incontinence or who lack ejaculatory control (premature ejaculation). They have also been recommended as a way of changing how orgasms feel (some, but not all, men say it enhances their orgasms).

Time Required: Once you know how, kegel exercises can be done several times a day for 5-10 minutes per session.
Here’s How:

1. Start by locating your PC muscle.
Many people begin doing kegel exercises but are actually squeezing the wrong muscle. Before you start the exercises, find your PC muscle, make sure you know where your PC muscle is and what it feels like.

2. Squeezing kegel exercises: start slow, find your baseline.
The basic exercise can be done anytime and anywhere. Just squeeze your PC muscles as hard as you can, and hold them. This is doing a kegel exercise. Start by squeezing and holding for a count of 3-5 seconds, then release and relax for 5 seconds. When you release, notice how your muscles feel. The first time you do a kegel exercise see how many times you can do it before you feel your muscles getting tired.

3. Squeezing kegel exercises: use sets of repetitions
Your kegel exercises will be most efficient and have the most impact if you get into doing sets of repetitions of the squeezing. Once you’ve found your baseline, you can work from there. If you can, start with doing 5 repetitions (squeeze/hold/release). Judge for yourself how long you can hold the squeeze for, but don’t push yourself too much at first.

4. Building up strength with kegel exercises.
Once you’ve found your baseline, do your exercises, and every couple of days increase both the length of time you hold the squeeze for, and the number of exercises per set. As a guideline, try to work up to a point where you can hold the squeeze for ten seconds. And try to work up to doing ten reps of kegel exercises per set. So you squeeze, hold for ten second, release, relax for ten seconds, and repeat ten times.

5. Do your kegel exercises three or four times a day.
Try to take three or four times in the day to do kegel exercises. Again, everyone is different, but as a guideline try to do ten reps per session, holding for ten seconds on each exercise.

6. Vary the intensity and time in kegel exercises.
You can also try to vary the intensity of your squeezing and the amount of time you hold the squeeze in a set. Once you’re comfortable that you’re doing the exercises properly try a set where you do rapid squeeze and release. Experiment with how long you can comfortably hold a squeeze. Remember not to push yourself to the point of pain or discomfort.

7. Do kegels while masturbating and having partner sex.
Once you’re comfortable, incorporate kegel exercises in your masturbation. Do them while you’re getting warmed up, doing them before you have an orgasm, and even try to do them while having an orgasm. You may notice that kegels change the way your sexual excitement and your experience of orgasm feels. For some men, kegels can be a way of “pulling back” from the edge of ejaculation, and can allow them to better control ejaculation.

Tips:

1. Isolate the PC muscle when doing your kegel exercises. Avoid contracting your abdominal, thigh, or buttocks muscles, or squeezing your sphincter muscle only. This is something many people do, but it reduces the effectiveness of the kegel exercise Concentrate on breathing and trying to keep yourself relaxed, and only tense the PC muscles you are using. Try not to tense up your whole body.

2. Finding time to do your kegel exercises. You don’t need to set aside a big chunk of time to do kegel exercises. Do a few reps while waiting for a stop light to turn green. In the last ten minutes before lunch, when you’re sitting at a desk, do a few reps. Do them while you’re waiting for the movie to start, or a commercial break to be over.

3. Don’t overdo your kegel exercises.Like any exercise, it’s important to build up slowly, and pay attention to your body. If you are experiencing pain or discomfort, you are pushing yourself too hard. It is possible that you could strain the muscles and aggravate a current problem, when you are trying to resolve it.

Published February 4, 2006.

More How To’s from your Guide To Sexuality
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Wonderful Presentation of the Anus

Japanese erotic bondage

Komon Sarashi Shibari means: To tie with anus exposed. In a series of topological manipulations of the surfaces surrounding a body Tatu shows us how to prepare a body for an invading space.

It is not inconceivable that you are tied up in just this way, that you are summoned to be a mid-winter present for a beautiful woman or a beautiful man, and that all day you walk about open, with your cheeks spread, utterly accessible, waiting for penetration.

Alexa is like no one else in how she excites me!

Hi, I’m a man who is really a hot, sexy slut inside. I love to get out of my man clothes and put on frilly lace pink panties. It makes me feel so hot. As I dress I wear silken stockings- as they are pulled up and fit tightly on my legs and thighs I begin to feel more and more like the hot slut I love to be, serving Alexa in whatever way she wants. Alexa’s voice is like no other- I feel compelled to do what she says and when I talk to her while wearing my hot , silky sexy lingerie, the excitement I feel is like nothing I’ve ever felt before. If you love the feeling of being a sissy slut, there is no better way to be the sexy slut slave you want than being under the control and direction of Alexa. Just the thought of her makes me feel ectasy. Call her today and be the hot sissy slave you really want to be. The feeling is like nothing you could ever experience anywhere. Alexa is amazing in what she does to your innermost intimate silky self- you’ll be hotter than you have ever been before. Do it now! It’s amazing!

Francine, hot in panties!